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Deepening Connection and Intimacy in Relationships
Thoughtful, expert insights on communication, desire, pleasure, and building meaningful connections today.


Beyond Intercourse: How Expanding Your Sexual Repertoire Can Strengthen Intimacy
Learn how moving beyond penetration-centered sex can reduce performance pressure, expand pleasure, improve sexual communication, and strengthen emotional and erotic intimacy in your relationship.

Maru Reynaga
Jul 2810 min read


How Porn Can Affect Your Sex Life—and When It Becomes a Problem
Learn how porn use can affect sexual desire, arousal, masturbation, intimacy, and relationships, which signs may point to a problem, and when sex therapy may help.

Connie Salinas
Jul 2111 min read


What If I Want Something Sexually and My Partner Doesn’t? How to Tell the Difference Between a Negotiable Desire, a Firm Boundary, and True Incompatibility
What happens when you want more sex, sex toys, a sex club, or an open relationship and your partner does not? Learn how to distinguish negotiable desires, firm boundaries, and true sexual incompatibility without pressure or self-betrayal.

Lorena Olvera
Jul 1414 min read


Do Men Have More Sexual Desire Than Women? Myths and Reality
Do men have more sexual desire than women? Learn how libido, spontaneous desire, and responsive desire work in couples, with less shame and pressure around sex.

Maru Reynaga
Jun 2311 min read


Different Sex Drives in a Relationship: What to Do When One Partner Wants Sex More
What if one partner wants sex more than the other? Learn how to navigate different sex drives with less pressure, guilt, and resentment.

Lorena Olvera
Jun 18 min read


Menopause and Low Libido: How to Reconnect With Your Body and Feel Desire Again
Low libido during menopause is common, but it does not mean your sex life is over. Learn how to reconnect with your body, desire, and pleasure without shame.

Ana Laura Gracida
May 256 min read
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